4-5 Day Private Couples Intimacy Retreat

Our 4-5 day Private Couples retreat gives you and your partner the unique opportunity to have the spaciousness and time to dive deeply into your relationship, intimacy, and sex life.Transported away from the hustle and bustle of your daily life for 4-5 days, surrounded by mountains, trees and wildlife, you will have the luxury of time to deepen your connection, explore your desires, and transform your relationship and your sex life.The 4 day (Friday afternoon to Monday  afternoon) retreat includes 13 hours of 1:1 coaching with Xanet Pailet, bestselling author of “Living an Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure” and nationally recognized sex coach and intimacy coach. The coaching encompasses 11 hours on site, and 2 hours pre and post retreat to maximize and solidify the work that we accomplish.


Some couples chose to extend their retreat experience by adding an extra day  (3 hours of additional coaching).

Your Private Couples Retreat includes luxury accommodations in our private guest suite with your own hot tub and optional on-site couples massage.

What to Expect During Your Private Couples Retreat:

Smiling senior couple embracing intimacy

The beauty of a private couples intimacy retreat is that we will design the perfect experience for you based on what your needs and interests are which will be discussed during our initial Pre-retreat coaching session. All of your sessions will be interactive and experiential and there will be plenty of time for processing. This is not a “talk therapy” couples retreat although we will definitely focus on enhancing your communication skills.

With her vast breadth of experience, tools and expertise, Xanet Pailet’s trauma informed coaching sessions can help you explore some of these areas in your relationship and sex life:

  • How to communicate your needs and desires in a loving and supportive way
  • Repair fissures in your relationship
  • The power of vulnerability to create emotional safety and connection
  • New skills and tools to enhance your love life
  • How to romance each other and bring passion back
  • Sacred sexuality and Tantric practices
  • Sensual massage and touch
  • Explore your core desires and fantasies in a safe setting
  • Individual Bodywork (Holistic Pelvic Care and Sexological Body Work)
  • Sexual Dysfunction (Painful Intercourse, Erection Issues)
  • Help heal the Impact of sexual abuse and trauma

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Private Intimacy Retreat Agenda:


Arrive after 12:00 pm
Evening Session 1 4:00 – 6:00


Morning Session 2 10:00 – 1:00


Morning Session 3 10:00 – 1:00

MONDAY (Optional but Recommended)

Morning Session 4 10:00 – 1:00

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