Rekindle Intimacy & Reignite Passion

A Passionate Intimacy Couples Retreat will help you get the spark back in your relationship today—and keep the fire burning tomorrow and for years to come.

Do you long for the time when just a look from your partner turned you wild with desire? Then you’ve landed in the right place! We’re here to help you rekindle intimacy and reignite passion through weekend and weeklong private intimacy and marriage retreats.

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Couples Intimacy Workshops

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A magical, transformative experience awaits you and your partner in the breathtaking Blue Ridge Mountains of Asheville, North Carolina—the chance to get away from it all and simply focus on each other. Our intimacy retreats provide the opportunity to reconnect and take in the beautiful view around you and right in front of you.

From a new vantage point, you can see what has been there all along. Xanet Pailet, a nationally recognized sex coach, intimacy coach, and best-selling author of Living an Orgasmic Life, will help you rediscover the ingredient in your relationship recipe that’s gone missing, that special something that enriches your love life, strengthens the bonds between you and your partner, and lights the flame in your body, heart, and soul: intimacy. In just one week or weekend, you’ll spice things back up again and be well on your way to creating the harmonious “happily ever after” you both crave.

Your Passionate Intimacy Couples Retreat will:

  • Deepen your connection
  • Enhance your sexual intimacy
  • Bring more zest and joy into your relationship and life


A Private Couples Retreat Specially Created for You and Your Partner

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Our Asheville retreats are completely private, for you and your partner only, and are specifically designed to meet your individual needs as a couple. Whether you want to learn new skills, work on relationship issues, or explore unexpressed desires, we will craft a unique experience just for the two of you.

Topics we might explore include:

  • Communicating wants and needs
  • Creating emotional safety through vulnerability
  • Using romance and passion to reignite your love life
  • Uncovering core desires and fantasies
  • Sacred sexuality and tantra
  • Sensual touch and massage

Vacation Intimacy Group Couples Retreats

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Every winter we offer a week long vacation intimacy retreat in a warm, beautiful, tropical climate.  Retreats have been held in five star resorts in Mexico, Costa Rica and the Caribbean.  These retreats provide couples with a unique experience to take a deep dive into sex and intimacy while also having ample free time to enjoy the luxurious surroundings.

Vacation retreats are not appropriate for couples experiencing serious relationship issues or who have been in a sexless marriage for more than two years. Those couples need more individual attention and support and should sign up for a private intimacy retreat instead.

Whether you’ve been together for 3 months or 30 years, these retreats will reignite your passion and keep that fire burning for years to come.

A Life- and Love-Changing Experience: Asheville’s Best Couples Retreat

Choose from the following premiere packages. For more details about what you can expect with each relationship retreat, visit the retreat information section.

Private 4-5 Day Intimacy Retreats

Our Private Couples Retreat gives you and your partner a rare opportunity in today’s hectic, fast-paced world: the space and time to take a deep dive into your relationship, approach to intimacy, and sex life. Over the course of a minimum three day (Friday afternoon to  Monday  afternoon) retreat, you’ll receive 13 hours of 1:1 instruction with our certified sex and intimacy coach, yet also have ample time to explore Asheville and the Blue Ridge Mountains. Many of our clients also add an additional day to the retreat, particularly if there are significant relationship and intimacy challenges.

Our private retreats include housing in our luxury, five star accommodations with a private hot tub and an optional on-site couples massage. Set up a chat with us here to find out more.

Vacation Intimacy Retreats

Group vacation intimacy retreats provide a different opportunity to deepen intimacy and connection in the context of group learning and experience. Our group retreats are an immersive experience where you and your partner will be held in a safe container. The group retreats are similarly experiential and interactive and you will leave with a tremendous amount of tools to help you create a dynamic long term intimate relationship.

The power of group retreats is the unique opportunity to connect with other couples who share your interest and desire to create more intimacy in their relationship. In the context of a group, we are all students and teachers.

Group retreats are not appropriate for couples who are experiencing serious relationship issues or have been in sexless marriages for 2  or more years as there will be limited opportunity for 1:1 coaching. Set up a chat with us here to find out more.

Restoring intimacy in marriage and long-term relationships is possible.

So often, couples struggle with intimacy and connection; they simply don’t know how to get back on track, back on the same page of their own romance novel. Busy lives, family and work pressures, life transitions, and over-familiarity can take the excitement out of your relationship.


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  • You feel more like roommates than lovers
  • You feel emotionally disconnected from each other
  • It feels like you and your partner are on different paths (and sometimes on two different planets)
  • You don’t feel seen, heard, or appreciated by your partner
  • One or both of you are struggling with feeling desire and attraction
  • You feel stuck in your relationship and don’t know how to move forward
  • Past sexual abuse or trauma is impacting intimacy with your partner

If so, please know that you’re not alone. That you deserve to feel deeply loved, sexually alive, and engaged in your relationship. And that if you’re in a sexless marriage or sexually unfulfilling marriage or partnership, you can rebuild intimacy. A Passionate Intimacy Couples Retreat is your pathway back to healing these wounds and rediscovering your love and passion for one another.

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