Thank you so much for your interest in scheduling a chat with me about a  couples intimacy retreat as seen on Netflix’s Sex, Love and Goop.

Please note that given the popularity of my private retreats, they typically do book out in advance. I do however occasionally have unexpected openings. In the meantime, grab a copy of my bestselling book, Living an Orgasmic Life, as it contains lots of great information and tools that you can use right away to improve your sex life.

To make the best use of all of our time, we’ve created a seamless process so that all of your questions can be answered.

How to Book A Retreat

1.Watch this Video explaining the Application Process…

2. Book Your Retreat Information Call

Fill out the below booking with your partner


3. Look at Potential Retreat Dates

Potential retreat dates for  2023 are listed here.

The investment for a private three day (Friday-Monday)  retreat  is $4800 plus approximately $600 for housing in our super sexy Airbnb Guest Suite. The retreat include 13 hours of 1:1 coaching with Xanet Pailet.  For many couples, we also recommend that you add an additional 1-2 days especially if there are significant relationship issues that need to be resolved.


Check out what couples are saying about their experience…



Beginning in April of 2023, we will also be offering  small group couples retreats (maximum of 6  couples) at Samasati Sanctuary a  local retreat center in Asheville. These retreats will provide a more affordable option and will likely have more availability in your time frame.  Local retreats will  cost between $2900–$3500 per couple including housing and all  meals.

Available dates are April 28-30 and October 6-8.

For either option please set up a Retreat Information Zoom meeting that will be attended by both partners so we can all get to know each other and you can get all your questions answered.