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Should I Write This Book? You Tell Me! Hey there, lovers and explorers of pleasure! I’ve been toying with an idea (pun totally intended) for a new book, and I need your help deciding whether it’s something I should actually dive into. I mean, who better to ask than my amazing, sexy, adventurous audience? Here’s the deal: After years of helping couples ignite their intimacy, writing my best-selling book Living...

  Today, we’re diving into a topic that may spark curiosity, excitement, or even a little bit of intrigue: Orgasmic Meditation, often simply referred to as OM.It is a favorite practice of mine and one that I often recommend to couples whom I work with. If you’re ready to explore new ways of connecting intimately with yourself or your partner, you’re in the right place.Let’s get started, shall we?What is...

Hey there, lovebirds! 🌹 Let's talk about something super important that might not be on your radar yet: PFAS, also known as "forever chemicals," and how they could be sneaking into your intimate moments. 🕵️‍♂️🕵️‍♀️ What Are PFAS, Anyway? PFAS (per- and polyfluoroalkyl substances) are a group of man-made chemicals that have been used in various industries around the world since the 1950s. They’re called "forever chemicals" because they don't...

Sleeping in Separate Beds is OK!   Dearest Gentle Reader:  (Can you tell that I’ve been sick with Covid all week long and have binge watched all of Bridgerton…)  So allow me this small indulgence.  It’s actually a miracle that I can put two sentences together no less find some creative juices in this foggy brain!  The question that I pose for you today is whether or not partnered couples...

  I don’t usually get very political in my blogs, but every once in a while I just can’t restrain myself.  So, if any of this offends you, please just stop reading and wait till next week when our regularly scheduled programming will return. In the endless craziness of what’s passing for governance these days, I came across this article in The Guardian Newspaper, which reported that the Louisiana legislature...

Recently a single friend expressed angst about how much difficulty she is having using the dating apps, and I wanted to share with my readers the advice I offered her. It’s not about you.   At least, it’s probably not about you.  If you’ve had any amount of success in relationship in the past, there’s a good chance the cause of your dating app woes has to do with other...

      The Gift of My Affair He strutted into the boardroom like a regal peacock. Tall, athletic, impeccably dressed, chiseled chin, piercing blue eyes.  The new CEO of a start-up entertainment venture that I was involved with. Introductions were made, our eyes locked, and before I knew it we were having drinks in the lobby of the Hyatt. A recent divorcee with two adult children, Brant was a...

Anyone who has their finger on the pulse of the sex-positivity community knows that a hot new sex trend is choking. Otherwise known as asphyxiation play (or breath play), new light was shone on this subject via a recent New York Times article.  The author, Peggy Orenstein, points to a study which shows that amongst teens, the practice is becoming nearly-ubiquitous.  From the article: Nearly two-thirds of women in [Debbie...

Disclosure: This post may contain affiliate links, meaning I get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through my links, at no cost to you. In the past, you've maybe read my recommendations for the vFit Gold, which uses red-light to strengthen your pelvic floor.  I'm still using and loving my vFit, but now I've got a new tool in my pu$$y-training regimen. If you haven't already met,...

Disclosure: This post may contain affiliate links, meaning I get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through my links, at no cost to you. An assignment I frequently give couples I work with is to try different sex positions. Many people want to, but can’t. It’s not for lack of trying. Rather, many people have physical issues which make many sexual positions painful or even impossible. I...