Power, Pleasure and Prosperity: A Sacred Retreat
Reclaim Your Power, Reignite Your Pleasure, Realign Your Wealth
If you’re a high-achieving woman who’s ready to take the next steps in your financial well-being—but still feels disconnected from your body, your sexual power, and the deeper truth of what wealth means to you…
This retreat is your invitation home
Escape with us to the wild beauty of Costa Rica for a transformative high-touch week where pleasure meets prosperity. Exhale, recalibrate, and reconnect—with your body’s wisdom, your unapologetic desires, and your unique definition of wealth.
Allow yourself to imagine…
Imagine waking up slowly in a sun-drenched room, wrapped in soft sheets, the scent of wildflowers floating through the open window.
You stretch. You breathe. There is nowhere you have to be. No deadlines. No demands. Just space to be with yourself.
Outside, the steam rises from healing mineral springs. A warm cup of tea waits for you on your doorstep. So does your body—ready to be honored, experienced, loved.
Later, you gather with powerful women in sacred circle—visionaries, creators, seekers—each reclaiming her connection to pleasure, purpose, and prosperity.
This isn’t a retreat to escape your life—it’s a return to who you are truly meant to be.
Rooted in your worth. Alive in your body. Aligned with your wealth.
Where Money Meets the Sacred Feminine
For too long, women have been told to disconnect from their sexuality and outsource their financial power. In this sacred space, we will gather to remember that both are our birthrights–and that when they are reclaimed together they ignite a level of freedom and radiance that changes everything.
Together we will journey into the most intimate parts of ourselves: our bodies, our desires and our relationship with money.
In this sanctuary of trust and sisterhood, you will awaken both.
You will leave with:
- Deeper devotion to what you truly value
- Clear alignment between your wealth and your soul’s purpose
- The ability to connect your money to your sexuality so it flows in ways that nourish both you and the world.
This Retreat is for You If:
- You’re tired of performing and long to feel at home in your body–sensual, grounded and fully alive.
- You’re ready to break free from the old programming around money and sex–and reclaim wealth, power and pleasure on your terms.
- You want to release the guilt, shame or silence that’s kept you from fully owning your desires and step boldly into financial sovereignty and sensual power.
- You’re seeking a more aligned relationship with money—one that reflects your values, your intuition and your feminine rhythm.
- You long to trust yourself more deeply—your body, your voice, your choices.
Our Unique Approach
Guided by two nationally acclaimed experts — women who embody the union of wisdom and power — you’ll embark on a journey where wealth and sensuality flow together. We will walk beside you as you claim both your financial and sensual power.
- With Xanet Pailet, you will soften into your body, dissolve shame, and awaken your sexuall vitality. Through embodiment practices, deep listening, and pleasure-based rituals, you will remember the wisdom and joy that lives in your own skin.
- With Holly Ruxin, you will explore your money as a living current. You will uncover the true equations of your wealth — what you own, earn, owe, and need — and learn to let your capital flow in ways that are aligned, abundant, and nourishing to your life and the world.
These aren’t separate tracks, but an intertwined journey — as you open to more pleasure, new clarity with money naturally emerges. And as you root into financial sovereignty, your sensuality blossoms into its fullest expression.
Our Promise to You
At then end of the week, we promise you will leave with:
- A body alive with sensation — attuned to its own “yes” and “no,” guiding you toward what truly nourishes you.
- A clear and loving relationship with your wealth — knowing exactly what you have, what you need, and how to let your money serve the life you long to live.
- The unshakable power of choice — making decisions in love, money, and desire from a place of deep trust in yourself.
- A circle of sisters — women who have witnessed your journey and will continue to celebrate and support your fullest expression.
Welcome to Verdesana!
Welcome to Verdesana —your jungle-chic sanctuary perched high in the cloud forest of Costa Rica.
Here the air is fresh, the energy is alive, and nature wraps around you like a soft, warm blanket.
Step out of the grind and into a world where hummingbirds dance through the trees, sacred hot pools await your surrender, and every moment invites you to slow down, soften, and come home to yourself.
Hike misty trails, soak in warm mineral waters under the stars, and gather with soul sisters in a space designed for deep rest, reconnection, and sensual awakening.
Your Nest in the Clouds
At Verdesana, your accommodations are more than just a place to sleep—they’re a sacred space to rest, replenish, and return to yourself. Each handcrafted cabin offers quiet luxury, earthy elegance, and stunning views that bring you into deep communion with the natural world.
Choose from private cabins for full solitude, semi-private two-bedroom cabins with private rooms and a shared bath and common space, or a shared cabin if you’re coming with a friend or open to sisterhood and shared experiences.
Each cabin features:
- Luxurious Queen Size beds with premium linens for deep, restorative sleep
- Spacious ensuite bathrooms with modern comforts and organic amenities
- Private balconies ideal for journaling, meditating, or daydreaming
- Comfortable sitting areas for reading, reflection, or intimate conversation
- Sustainable design using cypress wood harvested from the land itself
- Sweeping views of the mountains, forest, or nearby river
VIP Cabin with King Size Bed, Fireplace, Bathtub, and Incredible Views
VIP cabin perched above it all with a soaking tub, fireplace, and private deck where the mountains feel like they’re yours alone
Investment $6199
1 Available
2 Bedroom Semi-Private Cabin
Two Private Rooms, a shared bath and common area
Investment $4899
2 Available
Nourishment for Body and Soul
Our retreat meals are a celebration of vibrant, plant-based cuisine—colorful, flavorful, and crafted with love. Every dish is gluten-free, locally sourced, and designed to delight your senses.
From tropical fruits and warm house-baked breads to nourishing Costa Rican classics and inspired gourmet creations, each meal is a moment of sensual pleasure and delight.
Evenings feature elegant three-course dinners with garden-fresh herbs, rich sauces, and decadent desserts like molten chocolate soufflé with berries and coconut cream.
Craving a boost?
The on-site Wellness Bar offers specialty coffee drinks, protein smoothies, handmade elixirs, and fresh-pressed juices which can be purchased throughout the day.
Take Me There!Agenda for Your Weeklong Sensual Awakening Journey
Breath & Sound Journeys
Gently awaken the senses and clear energetic blocks through conscious breath and sound—reconnecting you to the wisdom within.
Sensual & Intuitive Movement
Drop beneath the noise of performance and perfection. Move the way your body longs to—fluid, raw, feminine, free.
Guided Embodiment Practices
Come home to your body in a trauma-informed, deeply honoring space. Reclaim pleasure as your birthright, one breath at a time.
Feminine Rituals & Ceremonies
Release outdated programming around success, sex, and self-worth through sacred ceremony. Reclaim your own definition of wealth, power, and womanhood.
Healing Waters & Sacred Rest
Soak, soften, and surrender. Let the land hold you while you remember the value of slowing down and receiving.
Sisterhood & Reflection
Gather with other extraordinary women in a space of honesty, reverence, and real connection. Here, vulnerability is celebrated—and so is your rising
Inclusions
- 6 nights accommodations at the luxurious Verdesana Retreat Center (Room and Pricing Options below)
- Private Transportation to and from Verdesana
- 6 Tropical Paradise Healthy Breakfasts
- 6 Scrumptious Plant Based Lunches
- 6 Mouth Watering Gourmet Dinners
- Welcoming Reception
- All Group Activities (e.g Sound and Cacao Ceremonies)
- Group Excursion to Irazu Volcano
- Pre-Retreat 30 Minute Coaching Call with Xanet
- Free Access to Xanet’s Reclaim Your Desire Online Program
- Pre-Retreat 30 Minute Money Alignment Session with Holly
- Gifts that will come in handy for the retreat
- Pre-retreat group call to get to meet your Soul Sisters
- Air Transportation to and from Costa Rica
- Trip insurance
- Wellness Bar (Available for purchase)
- Massages
- Tips and Gratuities
- Private Coaching Sessions with Xanet or Holly (can be booked separately--limited availability)
Meet Your Hosts
Holly Ruxin
During our time together, Holly Ruxin will guide you into a new kind of financial conversation — one as intimate and embodied as the work we’ll be doing around sensuality.
Founder and CEO of Montcalm, a wealth management firm stewarding over $250M for clients who align their money with their deepest values, Holly brings decades of Wall Street and impact investing experience into a heart-centered practice that treats money as an energetic flow — one that can nourish your life and the world when guided with clarity and devotion.
At the retreat, Holly will help you:
- Uncover the real equations of your wealth — what you own, earn, owe, and truly need — so you feel grounded and free in your financial reality.
- Release inherited money patterns rooted in scarcity, shame, or obligation, and replace them with stories of abundance, choice, and self-trust.
- Align your money with pleasure and purpose, so your financial life supports the fullest expression of who you are.
This is not a lecture on financial planning. It’s a personal exploration of how your money can flow in service to your joy, your sensuality, and your legacy.
Xanet Pailet
During our time together, Xanet Pailet will guide you into the deeply embodied and liberating work of reclaiming your sensuality.
A nationally recognized sex and intimacy educator, bestselling author of Living an Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure, and former NYC health care lawyer, Xanet brings both fierce intelligence and radical compassion to her work. After living in a sexless marriage for over two decades, she experienced her own sexual awakening — a transformation that became the foundation for her work with thousands of women and couples.
At the retreat, Xanet will help you:
- Release sexual shame, guilt, or numbness that keeps you from fully inhabiting your body and your desires.
- Reconnect with your sensuality through guided practices that awaken your erotic energy and deepen intimacy with yourself and others.
- Integrate sexual and financial empowerment, so pleasure and prosperity become mutually reinforcing forces in your life.
This is not about performance or pressure — it’s a safe, beautiful space to explore what truly turns you on, in bed and in life, so you can step into your full power as a sensual, sovereign woman.
Xanet is a certified Somatica® Sex and Intimacy Coach, Somatic Sexologist, Holistic Pelvic Care™ Practitioner, Tantra Educator, and Somatic Experiencing® Trauma Practitioner.
Retreat FAQ: Everything You Want to Know(and Maybe Didn’t Think to Ask!)
Please arrive at San José International Airport (SJO) by 1:00 PM on February 9 so we can travel to Verdesana together. The retreat ends the morning of February 15, and we’ll have you back at the airport in time for flights departing after 1:00 PM.
What Women Are Saying
The word AWAKENING is truly what I experienced. I felt a shift in my mind/body connection, and am forever grateful for this opportunity. I highly encourage anyone who is struggling to love themselves and their body to attend this retreat. Your body will thank you for it
Samantha North Carolina.
I had no idea how much I needed this. The healing came in ways I didn’t expect.
Ashley, VA
Every woman deserves this kind of nourishment. I left softer, stronger, and finally alive again.
Rachel, Georgia
