Welcome — You’re In
Thank you for pre-ordering The Sex & Intimacy Repair Kit.
Your support means more than you know. This book was written for couples who care deeply about their relationship and want real tools for repair, reconnection, and intimacy that lasts. By pre-ordering, you’re helping this work reach the couples who need it most.
Below you’ll find your pre-order bonuses.
1. The 30-Day Connection Reset Calendar
Available now
This calendar offers gentle, daily prompts designed to help you reconnect emotionally and relationally—without pressure or overwhelm. Think of it as a simple way to begin bringing the principles of the book into everyday life.
2. The Intimacy Reset – Guided Audio Practice
Delivered shortly after launch (March 4)
I recorded this 30-minute guided practice to support the first and most important step in intimacy repair: rebuilding emotional safety.
This is a practice I teach on retreat—designed to help couples slow down, regulate their nervous systems, and reconnect without needing to fix or resolve anything.
You’ll receive an email with access to the audio shortly after the book launches, so it can support you in integrating what you’re reading.
3. Costa Rica Couples Retreat Drawing
You’re automatically entered
As a thank-you, every pre-order supporter is entered into a drawing to receive a complimentary spot at my 2027 Costa Rica Couples Retreat—an intimate, immersive experience that typically represents a $10,000 investment.
Please note:
All retreat experiences are intentionally screened to ensure the most supportive environment for each couple. If a different level of support would better serve you, I’ll personally help guide you toward the right option.
No additional action is required to enter the drawing once your pre-order confirmation has been received.
A Gentle Reminder
These resources are meant to be used slowly and intentionally. You don’t need to do everything at once. Small moments of presence, practiced consistently, are where real change begins.
I’m so glad you’re here.
With gratitude,
Xanet
