The morning mist wraps around the trees as the jungle hums to life.
You’re tangled up in soft sheets, skin against skin, watching the rainforest wake through the wide-open windows. A pair of macaws flashes past—streaks of blue and gold through the green.
You touch gently. Eyes meet. Breath slows.
There’s no rush here. Just the delicious feeling of being right where you are.
Later, golden light spills over the mountains as you sit across from each other.
The air is warm. The silence feels safe.
You speak your truth. They really hear you.
And in that moment, something deep opens between you.
This is what it feels like to be met—with love, with presence, with desire.
And this… is only the beginning.
WHY YOU’RE HERE
If you’ve been feeling more like roommates than lovers…
If the spark has faded under the weight of stress, caregiving, or years of silence…
If you miss the days when a glance, a touch, or a kiss could light you up from the inside out…
Then it’s time to reclaim what’s been lost—
and awaken what still lives inside you.
Passion in Paradise is more than a romantic getaway.
It’s a sacred space to:
- Heal the emotional distance
- Dissolve shame, guilt, or fear around intimacy
- Remember what it feels like to be fully alive—in your body and in love
- Learn new techniques and tools to deepen connection and create passionate intimacy
Isn’t This What You Truly Want?
What if you could truly understand what lights you up in the bedroom—and feel confident asking for it
What if sex felt playful, exciting, and deeply connected again—not just another thing on the list
What if you could want to want sex… not out of obligation, but out of genuine desire
Can you picture a future where being empty nesters doesn’t mean growing apart—but growing into a whole new chapter of fun, freedom, and sensual discovery
What would it feel like to be excited about each other again—not just for one week in paradise, but for the life you’re continuing to build together
WHAT YOU’LL EXPERIENCE
Over the course of this luxurious, private week together, you’ll reconnect emotionally, physically, and energetically—with yourself and with each other.
No distractions. No pressure. Just time to explore, rediscover, and fall in love again.
You’ll experience:
- Guided communication practices that open your heart and deepen trust
- Somatic tools to help you reconnect with your body—and each other
- Live demos and sensual massage practices to reawaken desire
- Time for “home play” that brings the spark back into your sex life
- Discovery of your unique sexual styles and how to ask for what you want
- Clarity around mismatched desire—and how to shift the dynamic with ease
- Intimate connection rituals you can bring home and keep alive for years
This isn’t about fixing your relationship.
It’s about creating a whole new way of relating—
One that’s playful, passionate, and built to last.
THE VENUE
LET THE MAGIC BEGIN
Agenda for the Week
Arrive & Connect
Welcome to paradise. Settle into your beautiful sanctuary, breathe in the mountain air, and let the outside world melt away. Our first session gently opens the door to deeper communication—with your partner and within the group. You’ll learn to truly listen from the heart and create sacred space for connection and trust to grow, laying the foundation for a powerful week of intimacy and transformation.
Touch & Sensuality
On day 2 you will explore touch and sensuality and expand your sexual horizons. You’ll learn new techniques for creating tantalizing sensations that will drive your partner wild, and explore different aspects of sensuality that you may not have considered before.
From the power of touch to the role of creativity in sexual exploration, you’ll leave no stone unturned in your quest for greater intimacy and pleasure.
And after dinner, you’ll be invited into a luscious cacao ceremony—a sensual ritual to open your hearts, ignite your connection, and melt into each other’s presence. Sip the warm elixir, feel its magic pulse through your bodies, and let it guide you into a deeper, more delicious intimacy. It’s the perfect close to a day of soulful discovery and sensual awakening.
The Art of Seduction
Get ready to turn up the heat and dive into the delicious dance of desire.
Today, you’ll explore how to build erotic energy through conscious touch, breathwork, and energetic play.
You’ll learn to seduce each other with your eyes, your voice, and your presence—reigniting the spark through teasing, tantalizing, and tuning into your partner’s unique erotic blueprint.
Then, we take it to the river for an unforgettable blue clay experience—a playful and intimate ritual where you’ll anoint each other’s bodies with mineral-rich clay, awakening the senses through touch, texture, and tender presence.
It’s a day of sensual discovery designed to leave you both turned on and deeply connected.
Passionate Touch & the Dance of Power
We spend the morning at Playa Dominical, soaking in the delicious sun, sand, and gentle surf of the Pacific Ocean.
In the afternoon we explore the delicious edges of desire—where passion meets play, and trust deepens through surrender.
You’ll discover how to use touch with purpose and power, practicing the art of giving and receiving pleasure with presence and intention.
Through guided exercises in dominance and surrender, you’ll learn to safely explore control, trust, and erotic polarity.
With elements of light kink—like sensation play, blindfolds, and playful restraint—you’ll unlock new pathways to passion, deepen your erotic connection, and ignite the fire that comes from being fully seen, claimed, and adored.
Desire, Fantasy & Devotion
On this final full day, we dive deep into your core erotic desires—the longings, turn-ons, and fantasies that live at the heart of your pleasure.
Through guided visualization and partner practices, you’ll learn to share and embody your desires in a way that feels exciting, empowering, and deeply connecting.
Then comes what we’ve been building toward all week: an extended period of sensual play, where you and your beloved can fully savor everything you’ve learned—erotic energy, passionate touch, seduction, surrender, and more.
We close the evening with a beautiful love ritual, honoring the journey you’ve taken together and anchoring the transformation you’ve experienced in your hearts, bodies, and relationship.
Farewell
It’s hard to believe that your Passion in Paradise retreat has come to an end. As you savor your last breakfast in the lush rainforest, you take a moment to reflect on all the knowledge, tools, and new experiences you’ve gained over the last week.
You leave with a renewed sense of passion and connection with your beloved, and a newfound appreciation for the power of intimacy and communication in your relationship. With the tools you’ve gained on retreat, you’ll be able to navigate the challenges and joys of your partnership with confidence and clarity.
YOUR LOVE NEST IN THE JUNGLE
Bungalows, Jungle Domes, Bali Suites & Bali Homes
At Imiloa, your private sanctuary isn’t just where you sleep—
It’s where you slow down, soften, and reconnect.
Each space is tucked into the jungle, surrounded by lush beauty and designed for sensual, secluded intimacy.
🌿 The Jungle Bungalows
Cozy, organic, and open to the elements, these hideaways feel like they’ve grown right out of the earth.
Wake to the sounds of howler monkeys.
Slip into your open-air tub as the rainforest comes alive around you.
Fall asleep to the soft rhythm of rain on leaves.
🌙 The Jungle Domes
A little bit glamping, a whole lot of magic.
These chic geodesic domes are nestled into the hillside with panoramic views of the lush jungle.
Spacious and playful, they invite you to lounge, explore, and indulge your senses.
Think: boho romance meets Costa Rican wild.
🌺 The Bali Suites
Elegant and earthy, these suites blend Balinese charm with Costa Rican soul.
Tucked into the garden, each one features rich wood, handcrafted details, and plenty of space to unwind.
Step onto your private terrace. Breathe in the scent of tropical flowers. Let the evening breeze kiss your skin.
INDULGE YOUR SENSES
Whether you’re melting into a massage or sharing a couples treatment under the trees, the spa invites you to slow down and receive.
Choose from lush body wraps, craniosacral therapy, energy healing, or the simple magic of touch.
Treatments are offered in your room or in Imiloa’s jungle spa—where the sounds of birds and water lull you deeper into pleasure.
Because pleasure is the medicine.
IS THIS RETREAT FOR YOU?
This journey is for you if...
You crave deeper emotional and physical connection with your partner
You want to reignite passion and explore beyond routine sex
You’re afraid of becoming just roommates—and long for lasting intimacy
You’re open, curious, and ready to embrace new experiences
You want to communicate your desires and ask for what you need
You’re ready to claim your authentic sexual self—and support your partner in doing the same
You love the idea of combining luxury, adventure, and sensual discovery
This retreat isn’t for you if...
You’ve been sexless for more than three years and may need a private 1:1 retreat
You’re unwilling to explore vulnerability, sexuality, or new perspectives
You’re not ready to stretch beyond your comfort zone
You’re fully satisfied with your sex life and don’t feel called to deepen it
You’re navigating unhealed sexual trauma and need more specialized support
Ready to reclaim your passion?
If something in you is saying yes—
Yes to deeper connection.
Yes to more joy, more intimacy, more aliveness.
Yes to turning this next chapter into the one you’ve both been craving…
Then now is the time.
This retreat is intimate and highly personalized, with only a limited number of private spots available.
If you’re feeling the pull, trust it.
Take the first step and apply today.
We can’t wait to welcome you into the jungle—and into what’s next for your relationship.
We’ve got bonuses for you too!
- Surprise gifts that will come in handy on your retreat
- Pre-retreat call to meet all participants
- Private What’s App Group
- Instructional Videos on Erotic Massage for Women and Men
- Pre-retreat private coaching call with Xanet
- Free Access to “Reclaim Your Desire” Online Class
- On-site 1:1 private coaching session (limited availability with extra fee)
Frequently Asked Questions
This retreat takes place at Imiloa Institute’s Main Campus in Dominical’s luscious rain forest overlooking the Pacific Ocean. It’s a luxurious, secluded sanctuary designed to support deep transformation and connection.
**Important travel note: Our private charter flight departs at 9:30 AM from the Costa Rica Domestic Terminal in San José, so all participants must arrive in Costa Rica the day before the retreat begins. We will block rooms at a nearby hotel for your convenience, or you’re welcome to book other accommodations—we’ll provide a list of options closer to the trip.
