The Sex & Intimacy Repair Kit
How to Enhance Communication and Create a Lifetime of Passionate Intimacy
From the bestselling author of Living an Orgasmic Life comes the essential guide every couple needs to repair emotional disconnection and reignite desire.
If you’ve been feeling more like roommates than lovers—or if your relationship has lost its spark—The Sex & Intimacy Repair Kit is your roadmap back to connection. Drawing on more than a decade of experience leading transformative couples retreats, Xanet Pailet brings you the same proven tools, real-life stories, and practical exercises that have helped hundreds of couples rekindle their love and passion.
Inside you’ll learn how to:
- Heal from resentment, disconnection, and shame
- Communicate in ways that build trust and safety
- Reignite physical intimacy, even after years without sex
- Understand your and your partner’s unique pathways to desire
- Create a thriving, passionate partnership that lasts a lifetime
This book is not just theory—it’s a hands-on repair kit for your relationship, filled with exercises, reflections, and stories that remind you that healing and passion are always possible.
Whether you’re newly together or decades in, The Sex & Intimacy Repair Kit will help you and your partner reconnect, repair, and reawaken the love you both deserve.
Xanet Pailet — #1 Amazon Bestseller
Living an Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure
This is a healing, empowering guide for anyone who’s been disconnected from their sexual self, faced trauma, lost touch with desire, or simply wants more fullness and freedom in their intimate life. Pailet explores why many people disconnect from their sexuality—shame, body-image struggles, trauma, fear of intimacy—and offers practical tools and exercises to reclaim pleasure and revitalise connection.
Why You’ll Benefit:
Understand why talking about sex is hard, even in a highly sexualised culture.
Discover the #1 reason women (and many men) lose desire—and what to do about it.
Learn somatic and body-based practices to awaken your senses.
Reconnect to your erotic self and reclaim vibrant pleasure.
Build a healthier, more embodied relationship with your sexuality and your partner.
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