Which Experience Is Right for You?
A luxury retreat is just the beginning. Whether you’re looking for private reconnection or a tropical group immersion, you’ll find the space to rekindle intimacy and rediscover your partner.
Private Couples Retreat
Location: Asheville, NC (Florida in winter)
Who it’s for: Couples craving deep 1-on-1 guidance in a safe, private container
Year-round availability
Group Couples Vacation Retreat
Location: Rotating international ( Costa Rica, Mexico, Caribbean, and more!)
Who it’s for: Couples in a stable relationship ready to turn up the heat—together. If you’re facing serious challenges or have been sexless for 2+ years, a private retreat may be a better fit.
Held once per year
Women’s-Only Retreat
Location: International (varies)
Who it’s for: Women ready to reclaim their sensual power and embodied joy
Offered 1x per year
Who It’s For (aka: Is This You?)
Is This You?
You’ve achieved so much in life—but when it comes to love, connection, and intimacy, something still feels missing. If you’re longing for more… you’re not alone.
You might resonate if:
- You feel more like roommates than lovers
- You’re emotionally disconnected, even if you’re still functioning as a couple
- Physical intimacy feels awkward, absent, or like something’s just… off
- You’ve been through therapy but still feel stuck or unseen
- You miss the passion and playfulness you once had—or never truly explored
- One or both of you struggles with desire, attraction, or vulnerability
- You crave a safe space to heal old wounds or reignite your erotic spark
- You’re ready to feel deeply alive, sexually expressed, and truly connected again
Whether you’re coming as a couple or as a woman on your own, these retreats create sacred space for real transformation.
Xanet’s Story / Why This Work Matters
Meet Xanet
This work is personal. Because I’ve lived it.
For 26 years, I was in a sexless marriage. From the outside, everything looked fine. But inside, I felt disconnected, unfulfilled, and unsure how to bring up the one thing we didn’t know how to talk about—our intimacy.
It took years of healing, learning, and deep personal transformation to reclaim my body, my voice, and my desire. And now, I guide others on that journey—not from a place of theory, but lived experience.
As a nationally recognized sex and intimacy coach, former lawyer, and best-selling author of Living an Orgasmic Life, I’ve helped hundreds of couples and women create meaningful, lasting change in their relationships and their lives.
This isn’t just my work. It’s my calling.
As Seen In / Credentials / Book or Podcast
As Seen In & Trusted By Couples Around the World
For over a decade, nationally recognized sex and intimacy coach Xanet Pailet has helped couples around the world heal emotional disconnection, reignite desire, and rediscover intimacy through immersive, trauma-informed retreats. Her work has been featured in books, podcasts, and publications dedicated to authentic connection and embodied healing—and trusted by hundreds of couples seeking real, lasting change.
Blog or Resources Teaser
Explore Stories, Rituals & Tools for Deeper Intimacy
Why the Importance of Touch in Romantic Partnerships Can’t Be Ignored The importance of touch in romantic partnerships goes far beyond the physical. It’s a gateway to emotional closeness, trust, and long-term intimacy. In the whirlwind of busy schedules, deadlines,...
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Practices to Enhance Physical Intimacy: The Hidden Link Between Sensual Energy and Success Let’s face it: building a career, maintaining a relationship, and staying sane in the process is no easy feat. As high-performing individuals, we’re constantly asked to deliver...
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Building resilience together as a couple is one of the most important things you can do to sustain a lasting relationship. Every long-term partnership will face its share of storms—be it loss, illness, parenting stress, or unexpected setbacks. Couples who...
May 24, 2025
Creating sacred space for intimacy at home... how? When couples come to me wondering how to rekindle intimacy in a relationship, most assume I’ll share a new technique, a better position, or...
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